c++ : Pthreads or Linux processes - c++

Let us suppose I have different data structures in c++ on Linux
Data1, Data2, Data3, Data4 and many more
Afterwards, I make use of a network trace file (wireshark file). Send each packet to all these above data files. If anyone of them sets a flag for the packet. I want all the other data files to stop processing on that packet and move to the next packet in that network trace file.
In my scenario, which one will be better to use :
Pthreads or Linux processes (fork...)

Processes have individual address spaces where each heave a separate heap, stack and code laying inside. Loading processes require OS to create and manage memory resources.Data transferring through one to another require OS support, Inter Process Communication technologies such as Shared Memory or Pipes in case of Linux. Also each time accessing data that is protected by a shared semaphore, will require system calls. That will reduce your speed highly. Processes are protected from others by OS. If one process works right than the chance of another to break it is hard. Processes create a sandbox where you code is secured from others.
Thread's are more light weight. Creating and Deleting takes less time and afford. Doesn't have separate address space (page tables). Easy to share data one to another. Doesn't require OS support for that. But Threads are more vulnerable the mistakes of other threads. And still for the shared data you need concurrency tools such as semaphores or mutexes.
A small example of this is most browsers use threads to manage tab's. But when one fail mostly all application crash. But Chrome runs each tabs and extensions as different processes; If one crashes you still have others without major problem.
Go with threads if you are not sure. They will satisfy your needs stated in the question without problem.

Related

What's the most efficient inter-process communication method for a high-bandwidth data stream on a Mac?

I have a C++ program (running under MacOS/X) that generates a high-bandwidth stream of data (about 27 megabytes per second). A second C++ program receives that data and processes it in (soft) real time. Low latency and high reliability are both goals for this system. Due to circumstances beyond my control, the two processes need to be kept separate -- that is, I can't convert them into two threads within the same process.
Currently I'm using UDP packets (sent by process A to a UDP port on 127.0.0.1 that process B is listening on) to implement this data transfer, and that more-or-less-kind-of-works (modulo the occasional dropped packet), but I'm wondering if there isn't a more efficient/appropriate mechanism for this use case. Would a Unix pipe() be significantly more efficient or reliable? Or should I write the data to a mmap()'d shared memory region, and use a pipe/socket/semaphore/etc to synchronize the two processes' writes and reads? Or is UDP-over-the-loopback-device already efficient enough that there is little benefit to be gained by switching over to another method?
You certainly can't beat shared memory if you can manage the synchronization. Single copy in memory, no other movement. Your only "slow" point will be any fighting over who can do what, and where.

Boost: is there an interprocess::message_queue-like mechanism for thread-only communication?

The boost::interprocess::message_queue mechanism seems primarily designed for just that: interprocess communication.
The problem is that it serializes the objects in the message:
"A message queue just copies raw bytes between processes and does not send objects."
This makes it completely unsuitable for fast and repeated interthread communication with large composite objects being passed.
I want to create a message with a ref/shared_ptr/pointer to a known and previously-created object and safely pass it from one thread to the next.
You CAN use asio::io_service and post with bind completions, but that's rather klunky AND requires that the thread in question be using asio, which seems a bit odd.
I've already written my own, sadly based on asio::io_service, but would prefer to switch over to a boost-supported general mechansim.
You need a mechanism, that designed for interprocess communication because separate processes has separate address space and you cannot simply pass pointers except very spacial cases. For thread communication you can use standard containers like std::stack, std::queue and std::priority_queue to communicate between threads, you just need to provide proper synchronization through mutexes. Or you can use lock-free containers, which also provided by boost. What else would you need for interthread communication?
Whilst I'm no expert in Boost per se, there is a fundamental difficulty in communicating between processes and threads via a pipe, message queue, etc, especially if it is assumed that a program's data is classes containing dynamically allocated memory (which is pretty much the case for things written with Boost; a string is not a simple object like it is in C...).
Copying of Data in Classes
Message queues and pipes are indeed just a way of passing a collection of bytes from one thread/process to another thread/process. Generally when you use them you're looking for the destination thread to end up with a copy of the original data, not just a copy of the references to the data (which would be pointing back at the original data).
With a simple C struct containing no pointers at all it's easy; a copy of the struct contains all the data, no problem. But a C++ class with complex data types like strings is now a structure containing references / pointers to allocated memory. Copy that structure and you haven't actually copied the data in the allocated memory.
That's where serialisation comes in. For interprocess communications where both processes can't ordinarily share the same memory serialisation serves as a way of parcelling up the structure to be sent plus all the data it refers to into a stream of bytes that can be unpacked at the other end. For threads it's no different if you don't want the two threads accessing the same memory at the same time. Serialisation is a convenient way of saving yourself having to navigating through a class to see exactly what needs to be copied.
Efficiency
I don't know what Boost uses for serialisation, but clearly serialising to XML would be painfully inefficient. A binary serialisation like ASN.1 BER would be much faster.
Also, copying data through pipes, message queues is no longer as inefficient as it used to be. Traditionally programmers don't do it because of the perceived waste of time spent copying the data repeatedly just to share it with another thread. With a single core machine that involves a lot of slow and wasteful memory accesses.
However, if one considers what "memory access" is in these days of QPI, Hypertransport, and so forth, it's not so very different to just copying the data in the first place. In both cases it involves data being sent over a serial bus from one core's memory controller to another core's cache.
Today's CPUs are really NUMA machines with memory access protocols layered on top of serial networks to fake an SMP environment. Programming in the style of copying messages through pipes, message queues, etc. is definitely edging towards saying that one is content with the idea of NUMA, and that really you don't need SMP at all.
Also, if you do all your inter-thread communications as message queues, they're not so very different to pipes, and pipes aren't so different to network sockets (at least that's the case on Not-Windows). So if you write your code carefully you can end up with a program that can be redeployed across a distributed network of computers or across a number of threads within a single process. That's a nice way of getting scalability because you're not changing the shape or feel of your program in any significant way when you scale up.
Fringe Benefits
Depending on the serialisation technology used there can be some fringe benefits. With ASN.1 you specify a message schema in which you set out the valid ranges of the message's contents. You can say, for example, that a message contains an integer, and it can have values between 0 and 10. The encoders and decoders generated by decent ASN.1 tools will automatically check that the data you're sending or receiving meets that constraint, and returns errors if not.
I would be surprised if other serialisers like Google Protocol Buffers didn't do a similar constraints check for you.
The benefit is that if you have a bug in your program and you try and send an out of spec message, the serialiser will automatically spot that for you. That can save a ton of time in debugging. Also it is something you definitely don't get if you share a memory buffer and protect it with a semaphore instead of using a message queue.
CSP
Communicating Sequential Processes and the Actor model are based on sending copies of data through message queues, pipes, etc. just like you're doing. CSP in particular is worth paying attention to because it's a good way of avoiding a lot of the pitfalls of multi-threaded software that can lurk undetected in source code.
There are some CSP implementations you can just use. There's JCSP, a class library for Java, and C++CSP, built on top of Boost to do CSP for C++. They're both from the University of Kent.
C++CSP looks quite interesting. It has a template class called csp::mobile, which is kind of like a Boost smart pointer. If you send one of these from one thread to another via a channel (CSP's word for a message queue) you're sending the reference, not the data. However, the template records which thread 'owns' the data. So a thread receiving a mobile now owns the data (which hasn't actually moved), and the thread that sent it can no longer access it. So you get the benefits of CSP without the overhead of copying the data.
It also looks like C++CSP is able to do channels over TCP; that's a very attractive feature, up scaling is a really simple possibility. JCSP works over network connections too.

Realtime Display of Data

I am designing an application to collect my vehicles data and display it on an application. I'm trying to figure out what the best archtitecure of my software would be. I plan on using Qt for my gui (QPainter) and I have custom hardware that collects the data from sensors. I was thinking that the hardware I/O would reside in the application that renders the graphics in its own thread, but now I am thinking it might be better to put all the Hardware I/O comm in a seperate process and communicate between the two processes with some IPC protocol (not sure which one).
What do you guys recommend me doing. This would also be my first time writing a multi-process application.
I have written such things hundreds of times. By far, the best solution is to split the dedicated hardware into two threads or tasks:
one which does whatever realtime operations are needed
another which responds to data queries and commands from the UI
These two threads cooperate with each other to maintain a consistent, semaphore-protected shared variable space. The second thread does all its parsing and whatnot before locking the shared space, makes a copy of whatever it needs, and unlocks. The goal is to limit the locking interval to as short a time as possible. Oftentimes, it is practical to arrange all the shared variables into a single structure, and use a bulk memcpy(), even if only a few members are of interest. The simpler this interaction, the better.
The UI contains
screens which, when visible and active, cause periodic queries to the data module
Other architectures are possible, but whenever I've seen them, they have devolved into huge steaming masses of patches to work around synchronization and timing issues.

What is process and thread?

Yes, I have read many materials related to operating system. And I am still reading. But it seems all of them are describing the process and thread in a "abstract" way, which makes a lot of high level elabration on their behavior and logic orgnization. I am wondering what are they physically? In my opinion, they are just some in-memory "data structures" which are maintained and used by the kernel codes to facilitate the execution of program. For example, operating system use some process data structure (PCB) to describe the aspects of the process assigned for a certain program, such as its priority, its address space and so on. Is this all right?
First thing you need to know to understand the difference between a process and a thread, is a fact, that processes do not run, threads do.
So, what is a thread? Closest I can get explaining it is an execution state, as in: a combination of CPU registers, stack, the lot. You can see a proof of that, by breaking in a debugger at any given moment. What do you see? A call stack, a set of registers. That's pretty much it. That's the thread.
Now, then, what is a process. Well, it's a like an abstract "container" entity for running threads. As far as OS is concerned in a first approximation, it's an entity OS allocates some VM to, assigns some system resources to (like file handles, network sockets), &c.
How do they work together? The OS creates a "process" by reserving some resources to it, and starting a "main" thread. That thread then can spawn more threads. Those are the threads in one process. They more or less can share those resources one way or another (say, locking might be needed for them not to spoil the fun for others &c). From there on, OS is normally responsible for maintaining those threads "inside" that VM (detecting and preventing attempts to access memory which doesn't "belong" to that process), providing some type of scheduling those threads, so that they can run "one-after-another-and-not-just-one-all-the-time".
Normally when you run an executable like notepad.exe, this creates a single process. These process could spawn other processes, but in most cases there is a single process for each executable that you run. Within the process, there can be many threads. Usually at first there is one thread, which usually starts at the programs "entry point" which is the main function usually. Instructions are executed one by one in order, like a person who only has one hand, a thread can only do one thing at a time before it moves on to the next.
That first thread can create additional threads. Each additional thread has it's own entry point, which is usually defined with a function. The process is like a container for all the threads that have been spawned within it.
That is a pretty simplistic explanation. I could go into more detail but probably would overlap with what you will find in your textbooks.
EDIT: You'll notice there are lot's of "usually"'s in my explanation, as there are occasionally rare programs that do things drastically different.
One of the reasons why it is pretty much impossible to describe threads and processes in a non-abstract way is that they are abstractions.
Their concrete implementations differ tremendously.
Compare for example an Erlang Process and a Windows Process: an Erlang Process is very lightweight, often less than 400 Bytes. You can start 10 million processes on a not very recent laptop without any problems. They start up very quickly, they die very quickly and you are expected to be able to use them for very short tasks. Every Erlang Process has its own Garbage Collector associated with it. Erlang Processes can never share memory, ever.
Windows Processes are very heavy, sometimes hundreds of MiBytes. You can start maybe a couple of thousand of them on a beefy server, if you are lucky. They start up and die pretty slowly. Windows Processes are the units of Applications such as IDEs or Text Editors or Word Processors, so they are usually expected to live quite a long time (at least several minutes). They have their own Address Space, but no Garbage Collector. Windows Processes can share memory, although by default they don't.
Threads are a similar matter: an NPTL Linux Thread on x86 can be as small as 4 KiByte and with some tricks you can start 800000+ on a 32 Bit x86 machine. The machine will certainly be useable with thousands, maybe tens of thousands of threads. A .NET CLR Thread has a minimum size of about 1 MiByte, which means that just 4000 of those will eat up your entire address space on a 32 Bit machine. So, while 4000 NPTL Linux Threads is generally not a problem, you can't even start 4000 .NET CLR Threads because you will run out of memory before that.
OS Processes and OS Threads are also implemented very differently between different Operating Systems. The main two approaches are: the kernel knows only about processes. Threads are implemented by a Userspace Library, without any knowledge of the kernel at all. In this case, there are again two approaches: 1:1 (every Thread maps to one Kernel Process) or m:n (m Threads map to n Processes, where usually m > n and often n == #CPUs). This was the early approach taken on many Operating Systems after Threads were invented. However, it is usually deemed inefficient and has been replaced on almost all systems by the second approach: Threads are implemented (at least partially) in the kernel, so that the kernel now knows about two distinct entities, Threads and Processes.
One Operating System that goes a third route, is Linux. In Linux, Threads are neither implemented in Userspace nor in the Kernel. Instead, the Kernel provides an abstraction of both a Thread and a Process (and indeed a couple of more things), called a Task. A Task is a Kernel Scheduled Entity, that carries with it a set of flags that determine which resources it shares with its siblings and which ones are private.
Depending on how you set those flags, you get either a Thread (share pretty much everything) or a Process (share all system resources like the system clock, the filesystem namespace, the networking namespace, the user ID namespace, the process ID namespace, but do not share the Address Space). But you can also get some other pretty interesting things, too. You can trivially get BSD-style jails (basically the same flags as a Process, but don't share the filesystem or the networking namespace). Or you can get what other OSs call a Virtualization Container or Zone (like a jail, but don't share the UID and PID namespaces and system clock). Since a couple of years ago via a technology called KVM (Kernel Virtual Machine) you can even get a full-blown Virtual Machine (share nothing, not even the processor's Page Tables). [The cool thing about this is that you get to reuse the highly-tuned mature Task Scheduler in the kernel for all of these things. One of the things the Xen Virtual Machine has often criticized for, was the poor performance of its scheduler. The KVM developers have a much superior scheduler than Xen, and the best thing is they didn't even have to write a single line of code for it!]
So, on Linux, the performance of Threads and Processes is much closer than on Windows and many other systems, because on Linux, they are actually the same thing. Which means that the usage patterns are very different: on Windows, you typically decide between using a Thread and a Process based on their weight: can I afford a Process or should I use a Thread, even though I actually don't want to share state? On Linux (and usually Unix in general), you decide based on their semantics: do I actually want to share state or not?
One reason why Processes tend to be lighter on Unix than on Windows, is different usage: on Unix, Processes are the basic unit of both concurrency and functionality. If you want to use concurrency, you use multiple Processes. If your application can be broken down into multiple independent pieces, you use multiple Processes. Every Process does exactly one thing and only that one thing. Even a simple one-line shell script often involves dozens or hundreds of Processes. Applications usually consist of many, often short-lived Processes.
On Windows, Threads are the basic units of concurrency and COM components or .NET objects are the basic units of functionality. Applications usually consist of a single long-running Process.
Again, they are used for very different purposes and have very different design goals. It's not that one or the other is better or worse, it's just that they are so different that the common characteristics can only be described very abstractly.
Pretty much the only few things you can say about Threads and Processes are that:
Threads belong to Processes
Threads are lighter than Processes
Threads share most state with each other
Processes share significantly less state than Threads (in particular, they generally share no memory, unless specifically requested)
I would say that :
A process has a memory space, opened files,..., and one or more threads.
A thread is an instruction stream that can be scheduled by the system on a processor.
Have a look at the detailed answer I gave previously here on SO. It gives an insight into a toy kernel structure responsible for maintaining processes and the threads...
Hope this helps,
Best regards,
Tom.
We have discussed this very issue a number of times here. Perhaps you will find some helpful information here:
What is the difference between a process and a thread
Process vs Thread
Thread and Process
A process is a container for a set of resources used while executing a program.
A process includes the following:
Private virtual address space
A program.
A list of handles.
An access token.
A unique process ID.
At least one thread.
A pointer to the parent process, whether or not the process still exists or not.
That being said, a process can contain multiple threads.
Processes themselves can be grouped into jobs, which are containers for processes and are executed as single units.
A thread is what windows uses to schedule execution of instructions on the CPU. Every process has at least one.
I have a couple of pages on my wiki you could take a look at:
Process
Thread
Threads are memory structures in the scheduler of the operating system, as you say. Threads point to the start of some instructions in memory and process these when the scheduler decides they should be. While the thread is executing, the hardware timer will run. Once it hits the desired time, an interrupt will be invoked. After this, the hardware will then stop execution of the current program, and will invoke the registered interrupt handler function, which will be part of the scheduler, to inform that the current thread has finished execution.
Physically:
Process is a structure that maintains the owning credentials, the thread list, and an open handle list
A Thread is a structure containing a context (i.e. a saved register set + a location to execute), a set of PTEs describing what pages are mapped into the process's Virtual Address space, and an owner.
This is of course an extremely simplified explanation, but it gets the important bits. The fundamental unit of execution on both Linux and Windows is the Thread - the kernel scheduler doesn't care about processes (much). This is why on Linux, a thread is just a process who happens to share PTEs with another process.
A process is a area in memory managed by the OS to run an application. Thread is a small area in memory within a process to run a dedicated task.
Processes and Threads are abstractions - there is nothing physical about them, or any other part of an
operating system for that matter. That is why we call it software.
If you view a computer in physical terms you end up with a jumble of
electronics that emulate what a Turing Machine does.
Trying to do anything useful with a raw Truing Machine would turn your brain to Jell-O in
five minutes flat. To avoid
that unpleasant experience, computer folks developed a set of abstractions to compartmentalize
various aspects of computing. This lets you focus on the level of abstraction that
interests you without having to worry about all the other stuff supporting it.
Some things have been cast into circuitry (eg. adders and the like) which makes them physical but the
vast majority of what we work with is based on a set abstractions. As a general rule, the abstractions
we use have some form of mathematical underpinning to them. This is why stacks,
queues and "state" play such an important role in computing - there is a well founded
set of mathematics around these abstractions that let us build upon and reason about
their manipulation.
The key is realizing that software is always based on a
composite of abstract models of "things". Those "things" don't always relate to
anything physical, more likely they relate some other abstraction. This is why
you cannot find a satisfactory "physical" basis for Processes and Threads
anywhere in your text books.
Several other people have posted links to and explanations about what threads and
processes are, none of them point to anything "physical" though. As you guessed, they
are really just a set of data structures and rules that live within the larger
context of an operating system (which in turn is just more data structures and rules...)
Software is like an onion, layers on layers on layers, once you peal all the layers
(abstractions) away, nothing much is left! But the onion is still very real.
It's kind of hard to give a short answer which does this question justice.
And at the risk of getting this horribly wrong and simplying things, you can say threads & processes are an operating-system/platform concept; and under-the-hood, you can define a single-threaded process by,
Low-level CPU instructions (aka, the program).
State of execution--meaning instruction pointer (really, a special register), register values, and stack
The heap (aka, general purpose memory).
In modern operating systems, each process has its own memory space. Aside shared memory (only some OS support this) the operating system forbids one process from writing in the memory space of another. In Windows, you'll see a general protection fault if a process tries.
So you can say a multi-threaded process is the whole package. And each thread is basically nothing more than state of execution.
So when a thread is pre-empted for another (say, on a uni-processor system), all the operating system has to do in principle is save the state of execution of the thread (not sure if it has to do anything special for the stack) and load in another.
Pre-empting an entire process, on the other hand, is more expensive as you can imagine.
Edit: The ideas apply in abstracted platforms like Java as well.
They are not physical pieces of string, if that's what you're asking. ;)
As I understand it, pretty much everything inside the operating system is just data. Modern operating systems depend on a few hardware requirements: virtual memory address translation, interrupts, and memory protection (There's a lot of fuzzy hardware/software magic that happens during boot, but I'm not very familiar with that process). Once those physical requirements are in place, everything else is up to the operating system designer. It's all just chunks of data.
The reason they only are mentioned in an abstract way is that they are concepts, while they will be implemented as data structures there is no universal rule how they have to be implemented.
This is at least true for the threads/processes on their own, they wont do much good without a scheduler and an interrupt timer.
The scheduler is the algorithm by which the operating system chooses the next thread to run for a limited amount of time and the interrupt timer is a piece of hardware which periodically interrupts the execution of the current thread and hands control back to the scheduler.
Forgot something: the above is not true if you only have cooperative threading, cooperative threads have to actively yield control to the next thread, which can get ugly with one thread polling for results of an other thread, which waits for the first to yield.
These are even more lightweight than other threads as they don't require support of the underlying operating system to work.
I had seen many of the answers but most of them are not clear enough for an OS beginner.
In any modern day operating system, one process has a virtual CPU, virtual Memory, Virtual I/O.
Virtual CPU : if you have multiple cores the process might be assigned one or more of the cores for processing by the scheduler.
Virtual I/O : I/O might be shared between various processes. Like for an example keyboard that can be shared by multiple processes. So when you type in a notepad you see the text changing while a key logger running as daemon is storing all the keystrokes. So the process is sharing an I/O resource.
Virtual Memory : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virtual_memory you can go through the link.
So when a process is taken out of the state of execution by the scheduler it's state containing the values stored in the registers, its stack and heap and much more are saved into a data structure.
So now when we compare a process with a thread, threads started by a process shares the Virtual I/O and Virtual Memory assigned to the process which started it but not the Virtual CPU.
So there might be multiple thread being started by a process all sharing the same virtual Memory and Virtual I/O bu but having different Virtual CPUs.
So you understand the need for locking the resource of a process be it statically allocated (stack) or dynamically allocated(heap) as the virtual memory space is shared between threads of a process.
Also each thread having its own Virtual CPU can run in parallel in different cores and significantly reduce the completion time of a process(reduction will be observable only if you have managed the memory wisely and there are multiple cores).
A thread is controlled by a process, a process is controlled by the operating system
Process doesn't share memory between each other - since it works in so called "protected flat model", on other hand threads shares the same memory.
With the Windows, at least once you get past Win 3.1, the operating system (OS) contains multiple process each with its own memory space and can't interact with other processes without the OS.
Each process has one or more threads that share the same memory space and do not need the OS to interact with other threads.
Process is a container of threads.
Well, I haven't seen an answer to "What are they physically", yet. So I give it a try.
Processes and Thread are nothing phyical. They are a feature of the operating system. Usally any physical component of a computer does not know about them. The CPU does only process a sequential stream of opcodes. These opcodes might belong to a thread. Then the OS uses traps and interrupts regain control, decide which code to excecute and switch to another thread.
Process is one complete entity e.g. and exe file or one jvm. There can be a child process of a parent process where the exe file run again in a separate space. Thread is a separate path of execution in the same process where the process is controlling which thread to execute, halt etc.
Trying to answer this question relating to Java world.
A process is an execution of a program but a thread is a single execution sequence within the process. A process can contain multiple threads. A thread is sometimes called a lightweight process.
For example:
Example 1:
A JVM runs in a single process and threads in a JVM share the heap belonging to that process. That is why several threads may access the same object. Threads share the heap and have their own stack space. This is how one thread’s invocation of a method and its local variables are kept thread safe from other threads. But the heap is not thread-safe and must be synchronized for thread safety.
Example 2:
A program might not be able to draw pictures by reading keystrokes. The program must give its full attention to the keyboard input and lacking the ability to handle more than one event at a time will lead to trouble. The ideal solution to this problem is the seamless execution of two or more sections of a program at the same time. Threads allows us to do this. Here Drawing picture is a process and reading keystroke is sub process (thread).

Fast Cross Platform Inter Process Communication in C++

I'm looking for a way to get two programs to efficiently transmit a large amount of data to each other, which needs to work on Linux and Windows, in C++. The context here is a P2P network program that acts as a node on the network and runs continuously, and other applications (which could be games hence the need for a fast solution) will use this to communicate with other nodes in the network. If there's a better solution for this I would be interested.
boost::asio is a cross platform library handling asynchronous io over sockets. You can combine this with using for instance Google Protocol Buffers for your actual messages.
Boost also provides you with boost::interprocess for interprocess communication on the same machine, but asio lets you do your communication asynchronously and you can easily have the same handlers for both local and remote connections.
I have been using ICE by ZeroC (www.zeroc.com), and it has been fantastic. Super easy to use, and it's not only cross platform, but has support for many languages as well (python, java, etc) and even an embedded version of the library.
Well, if we can assume the two processes are running on the same machine, then the fastest way for them to transfer large quantities of data back and forth is by keeping the data inside a shared memory region; with that setup, the data is never copied at all, since both processes can access it directly. (If you wanted to go even further, you could combine the two programs into one program, with each former 'process' now running as a thread inside the same process space instead. In that case they would be automatically sharing 100% of their memory with each other)
Of course, just having a shared memory area isn't sufficient in most cases: you would also need some sort of synchronization mechanism so that the processes can read and update the shared data safely, without tripping over each other. The way I would do that would be to create two double-ended queues in the shared memory region (one for each process to send with). Either use a lockless FIFO-queue class, or give each double-ended queue a semaphore/mutex that you can use to serialize pushing data items into the queue and popping data items out of the queue. (Note that the data items you'd be putting into the queues would only be pointers to the actual data buffers, not the data itself... otherwise you'd be back to copying large amounts of data around, which you want to avoid. It's a good idea to use shared_ptrs instead of plain C pointers, so that "old" data will be automatically freed when the receiving process is done using it). Once you have that, the only other thing you'd need is a way for process A to notify process B when it has just put an item into the queue for B to receive (and vice versa)... I typically do that by writing a byte into a pipe that the other process is select()-ing on, to cause the other process to wake up and check its queue, but there are other ways to do it as well.
This is a hard problem.
The bottleneck is the internet, and that your clients might be on NAT.
If you are not talking internet, or if you explicitly don't have clients behind carrier grade evil NATs, you need to say.
Because it boils down to: use TCP. Suck it up.
I would strongly suggest Protocol Buffers on top of TCP or UDP sockets.
So, while the other answers cover part of the problem (socket libraries), they're not telling you about the NAT issue. Rather than have your users tinker with their routers, it's better to use some techniques that should get you through a vaguely sane router with no extra configuration. You need to use all of these to get the best compatibility.
First, ICE library here is a NAT traversal technique that works with STUN and/or TURN servers out in the network. You may have to provide some infrastructure for this to work, although there are some public STUN servers.
Second, use both UPnP and NAT-PMP. One library here, for example.
Third, use IPv6. Teredo, which is one way of running IPv6 over IPv4, often works when none of the above do, and who knows, your users may have working IPv6 by some other means. Very little code to implement this, and increasingly important. I find about half of Bittorrent data arrives over IPv6, for example.