scoped_ptr is not copy able and is being deleted out of the scope. So it is kind of restricted shared_ptr. So seems besides the cases when you really need to restrict the copy operation shared_ptr is better to use. Because sometimes you don’t know you need to create a copy of your object or no. So the question is: besides the cases mentioned above, could we consider that shared_ptr is better (or recommended) to use instead of scoped_ptr. Does scoped_ptr work much faster from shared_ptr, or does it have any advantages?
Thanks!
shared_ptr is more heavyweight than scoped_ptr. It needs to allocate and free a reference count object as well as the managed object, and to handle thread-safe reference counting - on one platform I worked on, this was a significant overhead.
My advice (in general) is to use the simplest object that meets your needs. If you need reference-counted sharing, use shared_ptr; if you just need automatic deletion once you've finished with a single reference, use scoped_ptr.
Performance - shared_ptr has more functionality, but also requires an additional allocation (it's also larger, but that rarely matters).
[edit] The second allocation can be avoided by using make_shared, but then weak_ptr will hold the entire entire allocation even after the object is destroyed, which may be a problem for large objects.
Expresison of Intent using scoped_ptr you state more explicitly what you want to do. (In case you wonder - that's a good thing :) ). If you do this correctly, shared_ptr will also indicate "this object is intended to live beyond this scope"
Their intended purpose is different, so, in many cases "shared_ptr vs scoped_ptr" is not a question at all. Sure, you can use a shared_ptr when all you need is a scoped_ptr. But what's the point? shared_ptr has likely a slightly bigger overhead with all the reference counting involved.
scoped_ptr works much faster from shared_ptr. It's right. shared_ptr always allocate memory using your allocator or default allocator.
Scoped_ptr has little in common with shared_ptr, weak_ptr, or unique_ptr because it is only doing very special case of "reference counting". It isn't something you will need very often in well-designed code, but it is a good tool to have available.
Basically, a scoped_ptr isn't a reference-counted thing at all. Rather, it is an object you create on the stack (within the local scope) so that you can do something like this:
//Some enclosing scope- anything set off by "{}" or even a function:
{
scoped_ptr<MyObject> ptr = new MyObject( parameters...);
} // When we hit this closing brace, "ptr" will delete the "MyObject" inside.
You tend to see this pattern more with mutexes and other synchronization primatives- I can declare an "AutoLock" that will lock the mutex passed into it, then unlock it when it deletes to turn the whole "{}" scope into a critical section.
Also notice that a 'scoped_ptr' only ever makes sense when you can't just do a plain-old stack allocation like "MyObject obj(params..)" for some reason. After all, what it is doing is letting you use a heap-allocated object as if it was one on the stack. That tends to be a lot rarer a use case than the reference-counting of shared_ptr & its cousins.
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I know, that std::shared_ptr uses reference counting, so it has copy&move semantics, on the other hand std::unique_ptr (hence the name unique) only has move semantics, so trying to copy it is a compile error.
However, its not quite clear for me how big of a deal is that. Can I simply use std::shared_ptr over std::unique_ptr in most cases, or should I use std::unique_ptr whenever possible, as it's far more efficient because it doesn't have to take care of reference counting?
Also, I know that smart pointers are useful when dealing with, for example exception safety, but are they a mean to generally replace traditional T* pointers?
Is it a good programming practice to use smart pointers over traditional T* pointers whenever possible?
The rule of thumb is:
If you can, use a stack based object directly or by a reference instead of using pointers.
Else, if you don't have to deal with shared ownership (usually you don't) use unique_ptr - it is not only faster, but also safer (no circular references).
Else, if you do have shared ownership, use shared_ptr
Raw pointers are OK in certain circumstances when they don't carry ownership - for instance as an input argument to a function:
void draw (const shape* sh) {
sh->draw();
}
...
std::unique_ptr<shape> ptr(new triangle);
draw(ptr.get());
The problem with the shared_ptr is, that, afaik, the reference counting is an atomic function, that means it not only counts the references, but also has locking functionality to ensure that the function is atomic. So at that point, yes, unique_ptr is better to use, when you only need move functionality.
Personally, I dont use shared_ptr alot, mostly normal pointers are enough. Imho smart pointers are only encourage getting lazy in memory management. I was in projects where smart pointers only caused race conditions when quitting the program, because nobody knew the order of destruction and these pointers referenced each others. For myself, I only use them if a lib of mine is putting pointers to the outside for which it is irrelevent when they get deleted (or in which order).
You should prefer values to std::unique_ptr, and std::unique_ptr to std::shared_ptr whenever possible, but not for performance reasons. Yes, there is some overhead when it comes to std::shared_ptr, as they use inside some form of atomic counter, but this is negligible for most applications.
The main reason to use std::unique_ptr is the uniqueness semantics - when you (or someone else) read(s) the code it's very clear the lifetime and the ownership of the object. This makes it more easy to reason about the code and find logical/performance issues.
PS: std::unique_ptr has no overhead compared to raw pointer, but it has some great advantages.
A shared_ptr has the extra cost of construction/destruction of the pointer itself, if passed to a function, plus the reference counting mechanism.
Do not listen to anyone that says either smart pointers are always the way to go, nor to people who say raw pointers are always better.
There are cases where smart pointers make sense, and cases where raw pointers are preferable.
For a more detailed and comprehensive read, I'll suggest you to visit:
http://herbsutter.com/2013/06/05/gotw-91-solution-smart-pointer-parameters/
It covers all the points you raised and it is an easy read for the most part.
shared_ptr means that the ownership rules surrounding the resource are complicated. Understanding them requires tracking down the lifetime of all shared_ptrs in the general case.
unique_ptr means that the ownership rules surrounding the resource are dead easy.
Both enforce a set of ownership rules, but the rules for unique_ptr are simple and local, the rules for shared_ptr are complex and non-local. If you are in a situation where you are choosing between the two casually, then you aren't treating lifetime issues with the gravity they deserve.
If you have a pointer-like resource whose lifetime should be controlled simply, or even at some central location (type-wise) with complex logic around it, use unique_ptr. The cost over a raw pointer is minimal, and it adds (enforced) documentation that this is the "owning" pointer to this resource.
If you must have a resource whose lifetime is the union of the lifetime of a bunch of other objects, all of whom have unrelated lifetimes, shared_ptr can be considered. If your situation is so complex that a loop could possibly be formed, then naive shared_ptr use is no longer a practical option.
shared_ptr and weak_ptr can also be used as a distributed lifetime notification system, where a central location stores a (mostly unique) shared_ptr, and clients store weak_ptrs. Local (non-stored) shared_ptrs are created from the weak_ptrs in order to check that the target resource still exists, then the resource is manipulated, then the local shared_ptr is discarded. The goal here is to make (in a non-language enforced way) a unique_ptr with weak shares, so reasoning about lifetime is only marginally harder than the unique_ptr case.
shared_ptr basically never "solves" the lifetime problem without you proving that it will solve your lifetime problems. It can make some parts of that proof marginally easier.
From the research I have done, it sounds like std::make_shared is the preferred way of constructing a std::shared_ptr. Specifically because:
It performs only one memory allocation, compared with using new, which performs at least two.
If the ctor passed to make_shared throws, then it won't leak, as it will with new.
My question is, assuming that I want a shared_ptr, should I always use make_shared, or are there cases where new is preferred?
As the counter and the object share the same allocation, they also share the same deallocation.
The counter has to persist until the last shared_ptr and weak_ptr go away. If you have a large object (or many small objects) with long-lasting weak_ptrs, this can cause memory contention if you allocate the shared_ptrs via make_shared.
Second, if you have a 3rd party API that hands you a pointer or a resource handle, and possibly has its own dispose functionality, make_shared is neither appropriate nor possible to use in every case. Creating your own make_ functions can keep the messy details out of the way lets you deal with this problem, and deals with the exception corner case as well.
Finally, while shared pointers are awesome, they are also overly powerful. Quite often I want a unique_ptr or even a boost::scoped_ptr, or an intrusive reference counting pointer, or the like to represent ownership. shared_ptr should be used only when the situation actually involves shared ownership of the resource: using it willy nilly because it is "easy" tends to end up with the resource equivalent of spaghetti code.
You may have to deal with legacy code which returns a dynamically allocated object. In which case, you would need to use the std::shared_ptr<T> ctor with the pointer parameter. It's not preferable to using std::make_shared but it does allow you to use all the std::shared_ptr<T> goodness with legacy code.
I know that this is not strictly equivalent to using the std::shared_ptr<T> ctor with new directly but it is a valid use case of std::shared_ptr<T> where make_shared cannot be utilised.
I am a bit uncertain about the interpretation of your question. I am assuming that it is justified to use a shared_ptr<T>; I can only second Yakk on the reasons why you wouldn't want to use shared_ptr in the first place.
There is one situation where you cannot use make_shared or allocate_shared to construct the shared_ptr but you need to use the corresponding ctor: If you need to pass in a custom deleter, see (3) and (4) at the ctors of shared_ptr.
I ran into problems using make_shared on a class with a private constructor (from a static factory method). I don't think there's an easy solution to this.
should I always used make_shared, or are there cases where new is
preferred
make_shared is not allowed when we are storing a naked pointer in shared_ptr allocated by someone else. and it can only call public constructors. However there are some reports in some compiler about accessing protected constructor using make_shared like this.
The more I read about RAII, I understand that using the stack is the way to make sure that the code is exception safe.
Does that mean every time I am doing a new() in my code, I am doing something wrong in the sense there is a better way to do it using the RAII principle?
You're not necessarily doing something wrong if you use new, but it's worth checking that you're doing it right.
The result of the new expression should be immediately placed under the control of a smart pointer, usually by passing it straight into the constructor.
If that smart pointer is a shared_ptr, then you are probably doing it wrong. You should probably use make_shared instead. There are some situations where you shouldn't (use of weak_ptr to large objects), and some where you can't (C++03 without Boost).
If you use delete then you pretty much are doing it wrong, unless you are writing your own smart pointer class. And even then, your smart pointer might be able to use another smart pointer to save work.
This is not essential, but if you use new solely because the object is "too big for the stack", consider writing a class that acts as a handle to the object, using unique_ptr or scoped_ptr to manage it, so that from the user's point of view the objects they deal with are automatic variables. If you feel like it, you can extend this to the full PImpl idiom. Even if you don't want another class, consider a function that creates the object and returns a unique_ptr to it, which you can then call like auto foohandle = give_me_a_foo();. Then give_me_a_foo contains new, but other user code doesn't, and you encourage the practice of automatically stuffing things into RAII objects.
There are alternative resource-management strategies to RAII in C++, but you'd know about it if you were using them, and that would affect what counts as "wrong".
I think you have not fully grasp what RAII really means. Dynamic allocations, in the same way that other resources like files, connections to databases, etc. are needed in programs. RAII focuses on how to manage those resources, and the way to go is to have the resources managed by objects with automatic storage duration (either stack, or as a member of another object).
That does not mean that every resource must be allocated in the stack, but rather that if you allocate something in the heap, you should delegate the responsibility of managing that memory to an object that is in the stack.
Not at all. If the nature of the beast (the allocation requirements) is truly dynamic, eventually it is either going to come from a heap or some severe trickery on the stack pointer.
The best you can do is to use wrappings that scope-guard for you. (I can' tell you how often I use std::vector<> when i need a dynamic temp buffer that is scope protected). It is one of the most ideal reasons to use well maintained and designed libraries like STL, etc. And unlike C# or Java, its predictable, which has tremendous value when truly needed.
No, stack space is very limited so you don't want to put huge things on it, hence the term stack overflow. Also if you need an object to have a lifetime longer than your function, then you can't put it on the stack.
I have some questions about smart pointers implemented in boost library.
Is the only diffrence between shared_ptr and scoped_ptr that scoped_ptr doesn't have copy constructor and shared_ptr has it?
Should i use then scoped_ptr instead of shared_ptr always when object doesn't call copy constructor?
I also doesn't understand idea of shared/scoped array. Can't I just use std::vector instead of it?
Is the only diffrence between shared_ptr and scoped_ptr that
scoped_ptr doesn't have copy constructor and shared_ptr has it?
The difference is more fundamental than that; it has to do with how the smart pointers own the object it points to. What makes smart pointers different from dumb pointers is that the concept of ownership is a core component of their function. The ownership semantics is what differentiates the different kinds of smart pointers.
Because smart pointers "own" the thing they point to, they can do useful things like deleting objects when the smart pointers go away (this is made possible using only the rules of the language; no compiler magic is needed). This way, memory management can be made almost automatic in C++ (despite claims to the contrary, there's very little manual memory management required in modern C++).
shared_ptr implements reference-counting
semantics for
memory management. Multiple shared_ptrs can own a single object. A
shared_ptr going away does not necessarily delete the object it
points to because there may be another shared_ptr owning the
object. The last shared_ptr that owns an object and goes away will
delete the object it owns.
scoped_ptr implements exclusive-ownership semantics. Only one
scoped_ptr can own any one object. When a scoped_ptr goes away,
it will always delete the object it owns (because there's only one
owner). It's typically used as a lightweight RAII mechanism for
objects allocated on the free store.
The array versions (shared_array and scoped_array) have essentially the same semantics, but are designed specifically for arrays e.g. they use delete[] instead of delete, implements the array subscript operator, etc.
shared_ptr and shared_array also allows you to specify a custom deleter, if the default delete behavior is not appropriate for the object. scoped_ptr and scoped_array do not have that ability, since they are quite lightweight compared to shared_ptr and shared_array.
In C++11, the newest and current version of C++, there's also a unique_ptr, which is just like scoped_ptr except that you can transfer the ownership of an object to another unique_ptr. In C++03, an older but more widely supported version of C++, there's auto_ptr which is equivalent to unique_ptr except it was easy to use it in an unsafe manner by accident (which is why it is deprecated in C++11).
Should i use then scoped_ptr instead of shared_ptr always when object
doesn't call copy constructor?
Which one you choose doesn't depend on the presence of the copy-constructor, since shared_ptr and scoped_ptr does not require the object to be copy-constructible. You pick the one depending on the required ownership semantics. If the object will have multiple owners, you use shared_ptr. If the object will only have one owner and the object's existence lasts only within a scope, use scoped_ptr (hence the name scoped_ptr).
I also doesn't understand idea of shared/scoped array. Can't I just
use std::vector instead of it?
std::vector does not implement reference-counting semantics like shared_array does. std::vector is more like scoped_array, but can be copied. When you copy a std::vector, you also copy all of the elements it contains. That's not the case for scoped_array. std::vector also has functions that allow you to manipulate and examine its contents (e.g. push_back, insert, erase, etc.), but is much more heavyweight than scoped_array.
Yes. scoped_ptr does not allow for copies while shared_ptr does. But this "simple" difference makes a world of impact on both the implementation and the usage of the smart pointer.
scoped_ptr is faster and lighter than shared_ptr because no reference counting is involved. shared_ptr will count the number of assignments and not delete the object until all references have expired/gone out of scope.
Now your question regarding vectors implies that you're actually not familiar with the the concept of dynamic allocation and the difference between that and static allocation on the static. You really should look into reading a primer on C(++) and look into the reasons for dynamic allocation and when you need it.
A vector stores a list of objects. A XXX_ptr stores a pointer to a (single) dynamically-allocated object. Apples and oranges.
If you allocate memory, you can put the newly created pointer in a scoped pointer, so that IF the malloc/noew fails, the memory will be freed. This is how I usally uses it, or if it's an object that needs to be allocated on the heap, but that I want to treat it as a stack object in terms of that it will only be alive until the end of the scope.
The shared pointer is if you want to pass the pointer around and allow the object to have multiple owners. Then none of the owners needs to take responibility of the object and they can all just stop using it and be sure that it will be freed correclty. (you don't wanna free an object that you know is used by someone else)
I'd say you're thinking about it the wrong way. The question isn't whether you do call the copy constructor -- it's whether you need to call the copy constructor. In other words, you should be deciding whether to use shared_ptr or scoped_ptr not based on reading your code but based on thinking about object ownership and what objects' lifetimes should be.
Say you have an object that you want to create on the heap, not on the stack, for whatever reason (maybe it's too big to be on the stack, maybe you might want to replace it with a different object at some point, maybe you want it to be initialized late) but its lifetime should never be longer than its containing scope. A common example of this is instance variables in a class: they should often be deleted when the object they are in is deleted. Then, you should use scoped_ptr.
But sometimes you don't know when an object will be safe to delete in advance. For instance, consider an object in a lookup table. You want to return it in response to lookups, but what happens when it's deleted -- could someone still be using the object who looked it up previously? In cases like this, you can use shared_ptr, which shares the objects ownership so that it only gets deleted when nobody has a copy of the pointer anymore.
So why does anyone ever use scoped_ptr instead of shared_ptr? First of all, knowing when the destructor gets called is one of the big advantages of non-memory-managed languages like C++. Maybe the destructor is expensive, or maybe it frees a resource; it's nice to know when these things happen. Also, with shared_ptr, there's the potential for memory leaks if you create a circular reference by accident.
In general, almost every pointer you have should be "owned" -- there should be a single place in your code that news and deletes it. scoped_ptr is great for this; when you want an owned object to be passed around to non-owners you can use a bare pointer. But if you absolutely need an object's ownership to be shared, use shared_ptr -- as long as you're careful to use it correctly!
As for scoped/shared arrays, you can certainly use std::vector, but arrays are cheaper and sometimes people want the performance benefit.
shared_ptr is very different from scoped_ptr. scoped_ptr (which is now standardized in C++11 as std::unique_ptr) is simply a RAII-style smart pointer which takes ownership of a resource and then deallocates the owned resource when the pointer goes out of scope.
A shared_ptr however, may share ownership of the resource with other instances of shared_ptr. The resource stays alive as long as one or more shared_ptr instances own it. This is an automatic memory-management technique, (a form of garbage-collection) known as reference counting. It basically provides the same effect as more advanced garbage collection algorithms, except unlike other garbage collection techniques, it doesn't handle circular references.
As for using std::vector versus boost::scoped_array, yeah - scoped_array doesn't really offer much of an advantage. However, boost::shared_array offers reference counting semantics, just like shared_ptr.
More and more I hear, that I should use smart pointers instead of naked pointers, despite I have effective memory leak system implemented.
What is the correct programming approach on using smart pointers please? Should they really be used, even if I check memory leaks on allocated memory blocks? Is it still up to me? If I do not use them, can this be considered as programming weakness?
If the smart pointers(ex: std::auto_ptr) are strongly recommended, should I use them instead of every naked pointer?
You should use RAII to handle all resource allocations.
Smart pointers are just one common special case of that rule.
And smart pointers are more than just shared_ptr. There are different smart pointers with different ownership semantics. Use the one that suits your needs. (The main ones are scoped_ptr, shared_ptr, weak_ptr and auto_ptr/unique_ptr (prefer the latter where available). Depending on your compiler, they may be available in the standard library, as part of TR1, or not at all, in which case you can get them through the Boost libraries.
And yes, you should absolutely use these. It costs you nothing (if done correctly, you lose zero performance), and it gains you a lot (memory and other resources are automatically freed, and you don't have to remember to handle it manually, and your code using the resource gets shorter and more concise)
Note that not every pointer usage represents some kind of resource ownership, and so not all raw pointer usage is wrong. If you simply need to point to an object owned by someone else, a raw pointer is perfectly suitable. But if you own the object, then you should take proper ownership of it, either by giving the class itself RAII semantics, or by wrapping it in a smart pointer.
You can't just blindly substitute std::auto_ptr for every raw pointer. In particular, auto_ptr transfers ownership on assignment, which is great for some purposes but definitely not for others.
There is a real reason there are several varieties of smart pointers (e.g., shared_ptr, weak_ptr, auto_ptr/unique_ptr, etc.) Each fulfills a different purpose. One major weakness of a "raw" pointer is that it has so many different uses (and has that versatility largely because it does little or nothing to assist in any one purpose). Smart pointers tend to be more specialized, which means they can be more intelligent about doing one thing well, but also means you have to pick the right one for the job or it'll end up dong the wrong things entirely.
Smart pointers allows to define automatically the life-time of objects it refers to. That's the main thing to understand.
So, no, you shouldn't use smart pointers everywhere, only when you want to automate life-time of your objects instead of having, for example, an object managing those objects inside from birth to death. It's like any tool : it solves specific kind of problems, not all problems.
For each object, you should think about the life cycle it will go through, then choose one of the simplest correct and efficient solution. Sometimes it will be shared_ptr because you want the object to be used by several components and to be automatically destroyed once not used anymore. Sometimes you need the object only in the current scope/parent-object, so scoped_ptr might be more appropriate. Sometimes you need only one owner of the instance, so unique_ptr is appropriate. Maybe you'll find cases where you know an algorithm that might define/automate the lifetime of an object, so you'll write your own smart pointer for it.
For example of opposite case, using pools forbids you to use smart_ptr. Naked pointers might be a more welcome simple and efficient solution in this particular (but common in embedded software) case.
See this answer (from me) for more explainations : https://softwareengineering.stackexchange.com/questions/57581/in-c-is-it-a-reflection-of-poor-software-design-if-objects-are-deleted-manuall/57611#57611
Should they really be used, even if I check memory leaks on allocated memory blocks?
YES
The whole purpose of smart pointers is, it help you implement RAII(SBRM), which basically lets the resource itself take the responsibility of its deallocation and the resource doesn't have to rely on you explicitly remembering to deallocate it.
If I do not use them, can this be considered as programming weakness?
NO,
It is not a weakness but a inconvenience or unnecessary hassle to explicitly manage the resources by yourself if you are not using Smart pointers(RAII). The purpose of smart pointers to implement RAII is to provide efficient and hassle free way of handling resources and you would just not be making use of it if you are not using it. It is highly recommended to use it purely for the numerous advantages it provides.
If the smart pointers(ex: std::auto_ptr)are strongly recommended, should I use them instead of every naked pointer?
YES
You should use smart pointers wherever possible because simply there is no drawback of using them and just numerous advantages to use them.
Don't use auto_ptr though because it is already deprecated!! There are various other smart pointers available that you can use depending on the requirement. You can refer the link above to know more about them.
It's a tricky question, and the fact that there is currently a mode to
use smart pointers everywhere doesn't make things any easier. Smart
pointers can help in certain situations, but you certainly can't just
use them everywhere, without thinking. There are many different types
of smart pointers, and you have to think about which one is appropriate
in every case; and even then, most of your pointers (at least in typical
applications in the domains I've worked in) should be raw pointers.
Regardless of the approach, several points are worth mentionning:
Don't use dynamic allocation unless you have to. In many
applications, the only things that need to be allocated dynamically
are objects with specific lifetimes, determined by the application
logic. Don't use dynamic allocation for objects with value semantics.
With regards to entity object, those which model something in the
application domain: these should be created and destructed according
to the program logic. Irregardless of whether there are pointers to
them or not. If their destruction causes a problem, then you have an
error in your program logic somewhere (not handling an event correctly,
etc.), and using smart pointers won't change anything.
A typical example of an entity object might be client connection in a
server, is created when the client connects, and destructed when the
client disconnects. In many such cases, the most appropriate management
will be a delete this, since it is the connection which will receive
the disconnection event. (Objects which hold pointers to such an object
will have to register with it, in order to be informed of its
destruction. But such pointers are purely for navigation, and shouldn't
be smart pointers.)
What you'll usually find when people try to use smart pointers
everywhere is that memory leaks; typical reference counters don't
handle cycles, and of course, typical applications are full of cycles: a
Connection will point to the Client which is connected to it, and
the Client will contain a list of Connection where it is connected.
And if the smart pointer is boost::shared_ptr, there's also a definite
risk of dangling pointers: it's far to easy to create two
boost::shared_ptr to the same address (which results in two counters
for the references).
If the smart pointers(ex: std::auto_ptr) are strongly recommended, should I use them instead of every naked pointer?
In my opinion, yes, you should it for every pointer that you own.
Here are my ideas on resource management in C++ (feel free to disagree):
Good resource management requires thinking in terms of ownership.
Resources should be managed managed by objects (RAII).
Usually single ownership is preferred over shared ownership.
Ideally the creator is also the owner of the object. (However, there are situations where ownership transfer is in order.)
This leads to the following practices:
Make boost::scoped_ptr the default choice for local and member variables. Do keep in mind that using scoped_ptr for member variables will make your class non-copyable. If you don't want this see next point.
Use boost::shared_ptr for containers or to enable shared ownership:
// Container of MyClass* pointers:
typedef boost::shared_ptr<MyClass> MyClassPtr;
std::vector<MyClassPtr> vec;
The std::auto_ptr (C++03) can be used for ownership transfer. For example as the return value of factory or clone methods:
// Factory method returns auto_ptr
std::auto_ptr<Button> button = Button::Create(...);
// Clone method returns auto_ptr
std::auto_ptr<MyClass> copy = obj->clone();
// Use release() to transfer the ownership to a scoped_ptr or shared_ptr
boost::scoped_ptr<MyClass> copy(obj->clone().release());
If you need to store a pointer that you don't own then you can use a raw pointer:
this->parent = inParentObject;
In certain situations a boost::weak_pointer is required. See the documentation for more information.
In general you should prefer smart pointers, but there are a couple of exceptions.
If you need to recast a pointer, for example to provide a const version, that becomes nearly impossible with smart pointers.
Smart pointers are used to control object lifetime. Often when you are passing a pointer to a function, the function will not affect the lifetime; the function does not try to delete the object, and it does not store a copy of the pointer. The calling code cannot delete the object until the function returns. In that case a dumb pointer is perfectly acceptable.
Yes. Assuming you have C++0x available to you, use unique_ptr or shared_ptr (as appropriate) to wrap all the raw pointers you new up. With the help of make_shared, shared_ptr is highly performant. If you don't need reference counting then unique_ptr will get you better perf. Both of them behave properly in collections and other circumstances where auto_ptr was a dumb pointer.
Using smart pointers (shared_ptr or otherwise) EVERYWHERE is a bad idea. It's good to use shared_ptr to manage the lifetime of objects/resources but it's not a good idea to pass them as parameters to functions etc. That increases the likelihood of circular references and other extremely hard to track bugs (Personal experience: Try figuring out who should not be holding onto a resource in 2 millions lines of code if every function invocation changes the reference count - you will end up thinking the guys who do this kind of thing are m***ns). Better to pass a raw pointer or a reference.
The situation is even worse when combined with lazy instantiation.
I would suggest that developers should know the lifecycle of the objects they write and use shared_ptr to control that (RAII) but not extend shared_ptr use beyond that.